As a wedding officiant, I speak with many couples about their hopes, desires and dreams for their wedding day.  While if not asked that help us ensure we are a good fit for each other. 

Here are some other questions you may wish to ask in the process of selecting your officiant:

Is it as important to them as it is to you, that there is a connection between the three of you?

Are they registered in the state and/or town that you are getting married in?

If they are an ordained clergy, where did they receive their ordination (through a seminary or was it an on-line ordination)?

What is their experience level and what do people say about them?

What does their fee  include (i.e. initial meeting, rehearsal, travel, second meeting, phone time etc)? If their fee includes a rehearsal, but you are not requiring them to be present, will they reduce the fee?

How will they interface with other wedding professionals such as Photographers, Musicians, Videographers, on-site coordinators and/or a wedding planner? 

 Do they have “rules” for what is allowed during the ceremony?

In the event they have an emergency, do they have access to other professionals who will be able to fill-in?  If not, what is your recourse?

Will they leave you with a keepsake copy of the ceremony?

Please let me know if there are other questions that you think are important and that I haven't covered in my past blogs on How to Select a Wedding Officiant.  Finding the right person to officiate at your ceremony can be fun and educational.  Taking the time and starting early enough will ensure that you have the pick of the top officiants in your area.  Enjoy!